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Alicia Keys -When You Relly Love Someone
...written on Sunday, Nov. 21, 2004, @ 9:39 PM
Is it cool to be blind when you're "in love" with someone? Is it really cool for one to have to endure someone's endless lies and obligate yourself to having to deal with them although they obviously don't care for you since they are not honest enough with themselves first and foremost to then be honest enough with you? If love is supposed to be so "unconditional" then this would be one of those conditions right? What if the person is with someone else other than you? Would this also be one of those conditions? You see, I’m finding it hard to believe that if a person really has these so-called “feelings” for you, then they wouldn’t allow you to be vulnerable to these types of situations without your knowledge. We have choices to make everyday, and it is someone’s choice rather or not they would like to be exposed to someone’s infidelity or not. Love is a beautiful thing. As a result, it should be a monogamist relationship; I think it’s unfeasible for one to be in love with one and to be in love with another. Now, don’t get me wrong, being in love and loving someone are two different things. One can love somebody all day long and simply are not in love with them. There is also a difference between being in love with someone and being infatuated with them also. In my opinion, infatuation takes place in the beginning when one discovers that they’re ‘digging’ on someone. I also think that infatuation is what is considered to be in layman’s terms as being the first month of two of pure bliss, and after month three, it goes straight down hill from there. However, in my opinion, most people go wrong after the infatuation wears off, because they’ve gotten too comfortable. Therefore, you should continue to work just has hard to appease your mate as you did when you first met them. Unfortunately, many don’t see things the way that I do and they do lose interest, despondently. As for those who are able to keep things merely moving past the infatuation stage, you’ll definitely begin to hit the “rocky road” or “The Emotional Rollercoaster” as I call it. You’ll start to discover things about your mate that will begin to trouble you relentlessly, which brings me to my initial question. Is it cool to be blind when you're "in love" with someone? I ask you this because once the doors to the locked closets begin to open, are you willing to ignore the discoveries? In my opinion, it’s hard because all along you’re thinking “why didn’t you just tell me that in the beginning?” However, often times, we as individuals are ashamed of what our past contains; therefore we try to deny anything associated with anything negative about ourselves. Nevertheless, people in the present get angry with things that have happened in the past, and a bunch of shit literally unfolds before your eyes. So, again, I propose my question again; Would you be naïve for the love or someone or be true to yourself and just let it go?
Good Question, huh?
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